Welcome to my new blog, Live Romantique! The word Romantique is to suggest the art of romance, or loving someone. I am very excited to have a place to store my many ideas and discoveries that adds fun and romance into my own marriage and hopefully to yours too! My vision for this blog is to include all things from date ideas, gifts, romantic destinations, food for thought, and basically anything that I find of value for strengthening and maintaining happy (totally fun) marriages!
AND SINCE IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY.....
I first wanted to thank the most important person in my life for loving me and continually striving to make each day better, my husband, you sincerely amaze me! This Valentine's he gave me many gifts I didn't expect and that I of course adored. But what I appreciated the most was how he took care of me and our family this past weekend while I was sick along with the two youngest children. He had planned a Valentine's date for us this weekend and I was of course dissapointed that I didn't feel well enough to keep our plans. He cheerfully went to the store to pick up things for the sick kids, and came home with surprises for all of us.
A dozen roses, chocolate bar, and a red (my favorite color) crockpot for me. We needed a bigger crockpot, but seriously, he scored points because he bought the red one. It's so pretty! Weird that it brings me happiness, but I love that he knows me! And the kids got new coloring books and sweetheart candy (Dollar Store). He also borrowed some movies for us to watch over the weekend. Despite being sick, this turned out to be a fabulous weekend seeing just how loved I am. My husband did laundry, at least 5 loads of dishes, cooked the meals, cleaned up vomit from children, helped me get up with the sick baby at night, made cookies, painted our daughter's nails when she requested it, let me take a 3 hour nap, and continued to ask what he could do in advance to help make my Monday easier if I was still feeling sick! When our house could have so easily been turned upside down, I was shocked to see the kitchen sparkling clean Sunday night and the beautiful roses on the table, and I thought, I am so very lucky to be loved by my husband!!!
A lot of these things aren't really out of the ordinary for my husband to do for me and the family, but I was grateful that my eyes were opened to see that these things were his way of showing his love and concern.
Love Tip #1: Open your eyes and discover the way your spouse shows their love for you daily!